This exercise helps reduce escalation and orient attention. It may not eliminate anxiety, and that is not the goal.
This exercise helps reduce escalation and orient attention. It may not eliminate anxiety, and that is not the goal.
The sequence
Exhale longer than you inhale, release unnecessary tension, notice three external details, and name the next useful action.
After the timer, enter the situation before beginning another round of checking or rehearsal.
Questions answered
Frequently asked questions
Is breathing always helpful?
Many people find it useful, but some become more focused on bodily sensations. Use an external grounding method instead when needed.
Does calm need to come first?
No. You can take meaningful action while still feeling anxious.